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Dating Essentials for Men

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Most men make dating way too difficult. One of the most common reactions men have to the material presented in Dating Essentials for Men is,

“This is easy. I can do this!”

Dating Essentials for Men makes dating “doable” – the way it should be.

Dating Essentials for Men, the Only Dating Guide You Will Ever Need

Welcome to Dating Essentials for Men

Dating Essentials for Men, by Dr. Robert Glover, the author of the groundbreaking, No More Mr. Nice Guy, is the “un-pickup” guide to dating success.

Are you ready to let go of the games, the tricks, the seduction, the pickup, the negs, the cocky-funny routines, the buying women drinks, the volunteering to help their sister move?

Do you want to learn how to create the kind of authentic attraction that naturally brings women to you?

If so, Dating Essentials for Men is the only dating guide you will ever need.


“Thanks to Dating Essentials for Men, I realized that all my dating frustration was not the result of me being defective in some way, but rather, never having learned this particular skill set. Thanks so much!” – Ron F., Calgary, AB, Canada


THE DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN EBOOK

eBookThe Dating Essentials for Men eBook is made of 19 chapters that cover all areas of dating, sex, and relationship. The eBook is a compilation of all the lessons Dr. Glover taught for over 10 years to thousands of men in his four Dating Essentials for Men online courses. These four courses sold individually for $125 ($500 total) USD.

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You can now get all of this dating wisdom and practical application for only $9.99 in the Dating Essentials for Men eBook – exclusively on Amazon.
 
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Dating Essentials for Men is worth its weight in Gold. I don’t even get nervous talking to beautiful women anymore. It’s amazing how far I have come in such a little amount of time. The information is useful, easy to follow, and most importantly – 100% effective. I’m having the most fun ride of my life and I owe it all to Dr. G.” – Jeremy S. Durham NC


The Only Dating Guide You Will Ever Need

Dating Essentials for Men contains the best dating advice for men available. It is overflowing with tested, proven information that will help you:

  • Identify your goals for dating – and achieve them.
  • Face your fears and soothe your anxiety.
  • Develop naturally powerful inner game.
  • Talk to women with confidence.
  • Test for interest.
  • Understand what women want in a man.
  • Successfully use online dating.
  • Create powerful sexual polarity.
  • Stay out of the friend zone.
  • Effectively flirt and banter – even with the most attractive women.
  • Successfully date after a divorce or break up.
  • Pass women’s shit tests.
  • Send text messages that create instant attraction and arousal.
  • Break up with integrity.

It doesn’t matter if you want to hook up, create a loving long-term relationship (LTR), get married and have kids, or create a harem filled with “friends with benefits,” Dating Essentials for Men will teach you how.


“Of the various things I’d tried regarding dating, Dr. Glover’s Dating Essentials for Men has been the most powerful and there have been real results. Learning to give myself permission to be a man with an open sexual agenda, I’ve related to women in a much more authentic and less stressful way. It’s meant a richer, more interesting sex and dating life.”  – Oz D., Chicago, IL

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BONUS BUNDLE

Become a dating master, put your love life on steroids with the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle.

Here is what you get with the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle:

DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN EBOOK (Digital)*

DEFM-BookThe Dating Essentials for Men Annotated eBook consists of 19 chapters covering all areas of dating, sex, and relationship. It is a compilation of all of the lessons Dr. Glover taught for over 10 years in his four Dating Essentials for Men online courses.

This illustrated PDF version of the Dating Essentials for Men eBook – exclusively available as part of the DEFM Bonus Bundle – contains quick links to help you find subjects of interest throughout the book. It also includes hyperlinks to additional resources contained in the Dating Essentials for Men Archive – also only available with the DEFM Bonus Bundle.

Dating Essentials for Men is truly the only dating guide you will ever need.


20+ HOURS OF RECORDED Q&A

DEFM-PodcastHave a question about dating? It’s probably been asked before.

When Dr. Glover taught his Dating Essentials for Men material as four online courses, he recorded over 20 hours of live Q&A webinars. In these sessions, Dr. Glover answered questions on every aspect of dating success.

These recordings are a treasure trove of dating and mating wisdom and are now available to you – only as a part of the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle. You cannot get these recordings anywhere else! It is like having a personal dating and relationship boot camp with Dr. Glover – at a fraction of the cost!

Plug in your headphones and go deep as Dr. Glover mixes humor, experience, personal illustrations, and practical “how to” into the best dating, sex, and relationship advice available.


DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN WORKBOOK (Digital)*

DEFM-WorkbookMen love maps. We work best when we have a clear plan of action with a proven history of results.

The Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle contains a Workbook with homework assignments for every chapter of the Dating Essentials for Men eBook.

Dating Essentials for Men works if you work it.

Want results? Get out and practice. And then go out and practice some more. There is no substitute. The DEFM Workbook shows you how to apply the principles and tools of Dating Essentials for Men in ways that will help you achieve the results you want – no more tired pickup lines, canned routines, or lonely nights alone.

The Dating Essentials for Men Workbook is only available as part of the DEFM Bonus Bundle.


MONTHLY LIVE COACHING SESSIONS

CoachingGet Hands on Direction

Every month, Dr. Glover will lead a live online coaching session with men who have purchased the DEFM Bonus Bundle. Get your dating, relationship, sex, and women-related questions answered live and in-person by Dr. Glover. These live sessions will be recorded and added to the Bonus Bundle stash every month. The value of Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle will keep growing over time.

DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN Q&A PODCASTS

DEFM-PodcastSoon after launching his Dating Essentials for Men online courses, Dr. Glover began recording personalized responses to questions presented in class discussion forums. These recordings became the Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series. In all, Dr. Glover has recorded over 200 podcasts.

Thousands of these DEFM Q&A Podcasts have been downloaded and have helped change the love life of countless men just like you. The Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle includes the 10 all-time best-selling DEFM Q&A Podcasts.
  • Accurately Reading Indicators of Interest
  • The 3Ts – Touch, Tease, and Tell
  • A Two-Part Series on Bringing Your Sexual Agenda to the Table
  • Questions about Setting the Tone and Taking the Lead
  • Dating Multiple Women
  • A Two-Part Series on Staying out of the Friend Zone
  • A Two-Part Series on Testing for Interest
These 10 podcasts contain a treasure trove of information with the power to transform your dating experience – and get the love and sex you want.

PRIVATE FACEBOOK MASTERMIND GROUP

MastermindGet a Community of Virtual Wingmen

Men who purchase the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle receive an invitation to join the private DEFM Facebook mastermind group. Here you can give and get support and encouragement in a community of virtual wingmen. You don’t have to go it alone. Join other men just like you from around the world who are successfully learning and applying Dr. Glover’s lessons to their dating, love, and sex lives.


DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN A-Z ENCYCLOPEDIA (Digital)*

DEFM-A-ZAll of Dr. Glover’s Dating Essentials for Men online courses contained an instructor Q&A forum where class members could ask any question relating to dating, attraction, sex, women, and relationships. Here, the good doctor doesn’t hold anything back – he is raw, uncensored, honest, playful, and succinct. He gets right to the heart of every question.

Now, Dr. Glover has cherry-picked the best questions and answers from all of these forums and packed them into the Dating Essentials for Men A-Z Encyclopedia.

Only here you will find a subject-by-subject compilation of over 250 questions answered candidly and practically by Dr. Glover. You will laugh, you will cry, you will smack yourself upside the head – wondering why no one every laid it out it so clearly before.

These nuggets of dating wisdom are exclusively available in the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle.


The Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle is like a personal growth seminar, dating bootcamp, and one to one coaching relationship all wrapped up in one.

Receive over $3,000 worth of dating wisdom, tools, and proven success strategies for only $250 USD.
Buy the DEFM Bonus Bundle Now

 
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Dating Essentials for Men has opened a world of opportunities for me. My life (and I’m not just talking about the dating aspect) has improved to levels I couldn’t even imagine 5 years ago. It’s hard work, but it’s totally worth it. Thank you Dr. Glover for doing this!” – Adrian, Everett, WA
What Planet Have I Landed On? - By Dr. Robert Glover

If you struggle with dating, welcome to the club. Dating is not in our human DNA. It has only existed in Western culture for a few generations, and in the East – not even there yet. Nevertheless, we live in a world where dating skills are essential for finding companionship, love, and sex.

98% of all men struggle with the most basic aspects of dating. Fears of doing something wrong, looking foolish, getting rejected, or becoming a #MeToo casualty permeate the minds of most men. These fears typically manifest in playing it safe and doing nothing at all, or at best, in clumsy, ineffective attempts at approach. The all too common outcome of repeated failures leaves many men feeling defective and unlovable.

For the majority of my life, I was one of these guys. I assumed the good women I wanted just weren’t interested in me. When I did get a girlfriend, I typically hung on way too long for fear of having to enter the dating world all over again. But that all changed when I became single in my mid-forties.

I decided to approach dating as if it were a scientific experiment. To my surprise, I quickly found that getting women to talk to me, give me their numbers, date me, and have sex with me was nowhere nearly as difficult as I had thought. When women started approaching me, propositioning me for sex, and getting naked on first dates, I often wondered what planet I had landed on.

Many of My clients noticed my dating success and begged me to teach them what I was doing. Dating Essentials for Men arose from those requests. I have since taught thousands of men just like you how to interact confidently with women – get numbers, get laid, get amazing girlfriends, and create great relationships.

Dating Essentials for Men makes dating “doable” – the way it should be.

Dr. Robert Glover

Author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and
Creator of Dating Essentials for Men

 
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“If you’re looking for a simple and challenging plan without the complex pickup models, this is it. Caution… you must do the work. Dating Essentials for Men will make you extend your comfort zone. When it’s done, you’ll wonder why you had a big problem with this in the first place.” – Michael W., Washington, D.C.
DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN PODCASTS

Take Dating Essentials for Men with you everywhere you go. Dr. Glover has recorded over 200 Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcasts on every area of dating. Now, you can take your game to the next level while working out at the gym or driving in your car.

Podcasts Dr GloverPodcasts cover topics like:

 
  • How to Deal With Strong and/or Controlling Women
     
  • Accurately Reading Indicators of Interest (IOI)
     
  • Creating Positive Emotional Tension With Women
     
  • Boundaries and Bad Behavior
     
  • Setting the Tone and Taking the Lead
     
  • Bringing Your Sexual Agenda to the Table
     
  • Being an Integrated “Man Whore”
     
  • Creative Ways to Use Online Dating
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“I met my wife almost 2 years ago. From the beginning I have been practicing the main rule that I learned in Dating Essentials for Men – set the tone and take the lead. Shortly after meeting her, I caught myself thinking, ‘Wow, I wouldn’t mind marrying this woman!’ And so I did. Thank you.” – Ondřej Čertík, Reno, NV


MEET DR. ROBERT GLOVER

The author of Dating Essentials for Men
 
robert-lupita-mediumDr. Glover is the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life, a transformational book for men and an Amazon bestseller.
 
As the creator of Dating Essentials for Men, Dr. Glover has empowered thousands of men to transform every aspects of their lives. By helping them overcome self-limiting beliefs and learn effective dating skills, these men have become more social, found love and fulfilling relationships, and created satisfying sex lives.
 
Dr. Glover is married to Lupita Escobar and lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. 
“Soon after applying what I learned in Dating Essentials for Men I was going on two to three dates a week – with a different woman each time! I’ve dated more women in the few months since being introduced to DEFM than I previously did in my entire life. Whether you want to date multiple women at the same time, or find that special person, Dating Essentials for Men works and can help you. DEFM made me realize the truth – I don’t need to put on a mask to attract women, it’s more about taking the mask off.” – R. NY
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BONUS BUNDLE

Bonus-Bundle$250.00 (Limited Time Offer)
 
  • 1 Annotated, illustrated Dating Essentials for Men eBook (Digital)
     
  • Private Facebook Mastermind Group
     
  • 10 Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcasts
     
  • 1 Dating Essentials for Men Workbook (Digital)
     
  • 1 Dating Essentials for Men A – Z Encyclopedia (Digital)
     
  • 20+ hours of recorded live Q&A
     
  • 10 Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcasts
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“I’ve read the book and listened to Dr. Glover’s Dating Essentials for Men podcasts. All I can say is that it’s all simply dynamite! I feel confident approaching and interacting with women. Many thanks, Dr. Glover!” Jason, Adelaide, Australia


Grow Your Social and Emotional IQ

As you practice the principles presented in Dating Essentials for Men, you will also be working on essential life skills:
 
  • Overcoming self-limiting beliefs.
  • Embracing your masculinity.
  • Becoming more honest and authentic.
  • Overcoming shyness and social anxiety.
  • Letting go of attachment to outcome.
  • Becoming more conscious and mindful.
  • Developing confidence.
  • Overcoming your fear of rejection.
  • Creating healthy boundaries.
Are you ready to expand every area of your life – and find love and sex too? Are you ready to start regularly wondering what planet you’ve landed on? If so, Dating Essentials for Men is the only dating guide you will ever need.
 
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“Thanks to Dating Essentials for Men I have the skills and courage to enter the dating world knowing that I can find my Really Great Woman. It helped with my social skills, getting out of mindless ‘comfort’ routines, and consciously building the life I want.” – Mohammed A., United Arab Emirates


DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN NEWSLETTER

Sign up for my Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Newsletter and every Friday I will send you my response to a different question about dating, sex, and relationship. Get a fresh dose of Dating Essentials for Men every week in your inbox. Stay motivated, avoid dating mistakes, cut through the bullshit, and get down to what works.

Free Podcast: When you register for my weekly DEFM Q&A Newsletter, you will also receive an exclusive Dating Essentials for Men Podcast on “Using a Woman’s Shit-Tests to Your Advantage.This podcast is only available to subscribers of my newsletter.

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“I’ve gotten more out of Dating Essentials for Men than I have out of 10 years of PUA opinion-based crap. The concept of testing for interest alone is a huge step forward and being a good ender is critical.” – George L., Denver, CO

 
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Testimonials
"Thank you so much, Dr. Glover. I followed your advice and landed the girl of my dreams. I simply stopped trying so hard, and followed your instruction. I will continue to following your advice as my relationship grows. I've honestly never been so happy in my life."

Stephen, Texas

"Your Dating Essentials Q&A Podcasts and classes have opened a world of opportunities for me. My life (and I'm not just talking about the dating aspect) has improved to levels I couldn't even imagine 5 years ago. It's hard work, but it's totally worth it. Thank you Dr. Glover for doing this!"
 
Adrian, Everett, WA

"What I like about Dr. Glover’s approach is everything it isn’t. You don’t learn pickup lines. You don’t learn how to seduce. You don’t learn how to manipulate or control others. You simply learn how to be a man of integrity, which has made the transformation of my dating, sex and love life has much more powerful and organic."

Michael Williams, Chicago IL

"I'm only 9 minutes into the Dating Essentials Podcast on OCD and I want to say THANK YOU already!!! Wow, Wow, and WOW!"

Matt, Seattle WA

hamilton 1 1 1 1 1“I was at a place where I was able to attract women, but not the kind I wanted. I was deeply afraid of real intimacy with any woman I was attracted to. In the past, I had done pickup stuff, but I was searching for something deeper, as I'd "hooked up" with plenty of women. I had developed unhealthy patterns of (and became really good at) keeping myself closed off from real relationships and not letting quality women into my life.

I took the entire run of Dr. Glover's courses (MYM A&B and PYP A&B) and they really helped me to lay out my new course and break old patterns that no longer serve me with women. These courses are superb - because Dr. Glover not only shows you what to do as a man of action - but also teaches men be how to be "integrated.” He teaches everything end-to-end, so men can eventually find a relationship that is meaningful, intimate while being a conscious AND masculine guy, and having fun dating along the way. Stay away from the pickup stuff and go with Dr. Glover. Few are doing what he's doing, and I highly recommend his work and programs.”

David Hamilton, Social anxiety coach at SocialExpression.net and creator of the Dissolve Social Anxiety Online Recovery Program


gammon 1 1I spent $3000 on a PUA Bootcamp with VERY little actual results. I spent a fraction of that on Dr. Glover's Dating Essentials courses and I can honestly say I have gotten way more from it than I have the bootcamp! He makes it simple, and I know I can be successful with women now! Thanks Dr. Glover."

Caleb Gammon, Atlanta GA


"These courses provided me with the confidence I need. I have the skills and courage to enter the dating world knowing that I can find my really great partner. They helped with my social skills, getting out of mindless 'comfort' routines, and consciously building the life I want."

Mohammed A., United Arab Emirates

gareth 1"After relating some of Robert's teachings from our sessions to a female friend she labeled him a 'guru' and wanted to know his location so she could wait in the carpark. 'Nuff said."

Gareth Bell, Auckland, New Zealand

"If you want to learn the things you need to know to have the most amazing woman you can possibly have then the classes offered by Dr Glover are what you need. Dr Glover's classes go way beyond his No More Mr Nice Guy book. I've taken every class I could attend and have learned where I was making terminal mistakes in my relationships and my life. I just wish I could have attended these classes when I was 18; I would have saved myself a lot of time and heart ache."

George, Denver, CO


dinesh 1 1“For the first time in my life, I went on 8 first dates in 12 weeks and had sex with one of them. This has given me confidence. Dr Glover's Dating Essentials for men online classes work!”
 
Dinesh, Sydney, Australia