New York TPI One-Day Workshop
P.E.T. Positive Emotional Tension
The Key to Feminine Attraction, Attachment, and Passion
A One-Day TPI Workshop
New York NY
Saturday, 4 October, 2014
Led by Dr. Robert Glover
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What Is Positive Emotional Tension?
I had the most amazing revelation after a run on the beach in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, spring 2008. I’m not sure where the insight came from, but when it hit me, it almost blew my mind.
The “aha” of that moment made almost every question I’d ever had about women – as a single and married man – crystal clear.
Here it is.
Women have to experience emotional tension to feel attraction and attachment to a man.
The “aha” of that moment made almost every question I’d ever had about women – as a single and married man – crystal clear.
Here it is.
Women have to experience emotional tension to feel attraction and attachment to a man.
That’s it.
In that moment, everything became clear. Everything I’d ever done wrong with women. Everything I’d ever done right with women (but didn’t know why). Everything women had ever done that made absolutely no sense to me at the time.
I was so immediately blown away, I ran back to my room and wrote eleven legal pages of notes on how to apply this information.
Here are the basics:
For a woman to be attracted to a man, she has to feel emotional tension with him (which often gets translated into physical and sexual tension).
Check out a few chick-flicks to see what I’m talking about.
For a woman to remain attached to a man, she has to regularly feel emotional tension with him.
All this is basically the opposite of what most men believe about attracting and keeping a woman. That’s why what most men do is wrong and leads to unending frustration for both them and women.
It became clear to me why single men fail to create attraction with women by being “nice.”
It became clear to me why many women in relationship lose sexual desire for their partner over time (and start nagging, complaining, withdrawing, getting fat, etc.).
That day changed my life. The information I will share with you in this workshop will change yours as well.
Two Mistakes
Here are the two biggest “tension” mistakes I see men make with women.
The first is to go out of their way to make sure they never create any tension.
Most men hate emotional tension – especially any kind with a woman – so why would they want to create it?
If you are single and seem to struggle in attracting women or often end up in the “friend zone,” it’s probably because when you meet a woman, you invest all your energy in trying to get her approval.
You don’t take any risks. You listen to her talk about what she’s interested in. You don’t touch her or tease her. You buy her drinks and volunteer to help her sister move. Your “niceness” creates no tension, and she gets bored. Next thing you know she’s gone to the bathroom and never comes back.
After several experiences like this, you assume women just aren’t attracted to you, or they only go for jerks. So you do the only thing you know – you get nicer and try even harder to please.
If you are in a relationship and your partner is frequently too tired or too busy to have sex. Or the sex you have is boring and routine. If your woman often seems irritable and seems to enjoy pointing out your faults. If she is withdrawn or has gotten overly invested in her job, the kids, food, or television, it’s because whatever tension used to exist is long ago and far away.
If this sounds like your relationship, you probably don’t risk in any way: you keep things to yourself, you avoid rocking the boat; you try to please and avoid conflict, you withhold the truth, and you don’t ask for what you want. All of this kills emotional tension, and with it any “attachment” your woman might have had to you (and her trust and her sex drive along with it).
The second big mistake men make is to quickly try to eliminate any tension a woman creates.
If you’re single, a woman has to quickly find out if you have your shit together. Whether she knows it or not, she wants a man who can provide for and protect her. She’s a security-seeking creature, and Mother Nature wired it into her. She doesn’t want to be the most powerful person in the room (though she will be if you’re not).
She uses “shit tests” to find out if you’re man enough to be her man.
Most men quickly fail a woman’s shit tests, because they see them as attacks. But they’re the opposite. They signal a woman is already attracted to you and now wants to find out if she should give herself to you more deeply.
As soon as you defend yourself, explain, make excuses, or act flustered, you’ve failed, and her juices dry right up.
If you are in a relationship and your woman has a mood or an emotion, I bet you quickly “put the wet stuff on the red stuff.” You do whatever you can to solve her mood and get her back to “good.”
I call this “maintaining the possibility of availability.” You probably don’t think your woman will want to have sex with you if she is in a bad mood, but the truth is that, for women, drama is foreplay.
If you aren’t consciously creating “Positive Emotional Tension” (PET), your woman will unconsciously create “Negative Emotional Tension.” You know, the body language, noise, criticism, accusations, complaining, and sighs that create tension between you.
Women tell me they don’t mean to get all bat-shit crazy, but they can’t help it. Since your woman needs emotional tension to feel attracted and attached to you (and she really does want to feel attracted and attached to you), she will create it – she has to.
I know right now much of this probably sounds crazy to you, but I hope it’s also making a little sense as well.
In this TPI Workshop, we will spend a full day exploring and applying the principles of PET.
- If you are single, it will change how you relate to every woman you meet.
- If you are in relationship, it will transform you and the woman you love.
- And whether you’re single or in a relationship, it will improve your sex-life times X.
Whether you’re single and want to learn how to create instant attraction with women, or in a long-term relationship that has lost it’s spark, this workshop will transform your life.
No more trying to please women. No more groveling for sex. No more feeling frustrated. No more wondering, “What did I do wrong?” No more pondering, “Why did she do that?”
Come join me in New York! Robert
P.S. When women find out what I teach men about PET, they often ask questions like, “Where can I meet one of your guys?” “Can I come wait in your parking lot?” “Will you put up a website so I can find your graduates?” Women love this shit and really want you to get it!
Registration
Space is Limited -- Register Now
Registration Fee: $350
Workshop is limited to men only
What You Will Learn
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Why it’s essential for women to feel emotional tension to experience attraction and attachment to a man.
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How men fail to create emotional tension.
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How men kill what tension does exist.
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How positive and negative emotional tension differ.
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How to stop being “nice” and seeking women’s approval.
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Why women use “shit tests,” and why you should view them as invitations for sex.
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How to pass a woman’s shit tests.
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How to set the tone and take the lead with women.
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How to stay out of the friend zone.
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How to create instant and overpowering PET and attraction with a woman the first time you meet her.
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What you can do daily to maintain PET and attachment in a LTR.
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How to practice the Three Rules for Great Sex.
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How to stop pleasing women.
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Why trying to make a woman happy always fails (and actually makes her unhappy).
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What feminine drama means.
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Why you should never try to get an unavailable woman to be available or try to get an unaroused woman aroused.
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Why women cheat.
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Why women do things that make no sense to you.
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How to avoid ever taking personally anything a woman does.
- Why a woman’s complaining, criticizing, or fault-finding is an invitation to connect with her more deeply.
This workshop will present multiple strategies for creating and maintaining positive emotional tension.
After completing this workshop you will not only understand the deep principles of emotional tension and its effect on women, but you will also have a confident grasp of the application of these principles.
This workshop is open to single men and men in relationship.
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Bonuses
Receive the Following Free Podcasts
- Opening Up a Woman Sexually
- Creating Positive Emotional Tension With Women
- From Pink to 50 Shades of Grey: Do Women Really Need Positive Emotional Tension?
Schedule & Location
Workshop Schedule: Saturday, 4 October 2014
10:00 AM - 1:00 PM: Workshop Session
1:00 PM - 2:30 PM: Lunch on your own
2:30 PM - 5:30 PM: Workshop Session
Workshop Location
Residence Inn Times Square
Sixth Ave & 39TH Street
New York NY 10018
(212) 768 0007
(map at bottom of page)
Registration
Space is Limited -- Register Now
Registration Fee: $350
Workshop is limited to men only
Refund Policy
Do to a limited number of spaces available at the New York TPI Workshop, any request for refund must be made at least 7 days before the event. Refund requests made at least 7 days before the workshop will be refunded at 50% of the workshop fee or the full fee can be applied to a future workshop. No refund will be made within 7 days of the workshop, but the full registration fee can be applied to a future TPI Workshop.
Testimonials “I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 30+ years of experience, who just attended Dr. Glover’s Living in the Conscious Masculine Workshop in NYC. I have to say that after having a career providing therapy to men and women and having been in therapy myself, this is the closest that I have come to being able to understand myself as a man. What Dr. Glover does is to tear down the misconceptions that we have about women and their behavior and how society has actually directed men towards being the ‘Nice Guy’ as if that was our only "positive" choice. Dr. Glover’s openness and honesty made this a comforting, yet challenging day of enlightenment that will help me do a ‘course correction’ in the hopes of finally becoming the Integrated Male. Thank you Dr. Glover!”Martin L Ricketts, LCSW-R, Glen Oaks NY
"Just wanted to take a moment to thank you for conducting the workshop on Saturday. What I learned has already taken me to a new level in my consciousness – observing and understanding how having balanced masculine and feminine energies opens me up to be fully present and aware of my true masculine self and have that show up at work, with my family, and when I am alone."
Jose, Los Angeles  "Robert, Thank you for such a wonderful workshop! Thank you again for being you, and bringing your game 100% plus to the whole weekend...it was very powerful, challenging, expanding and masculine! I had a great time and I look forward to more experiences like this, with you, and beyond."Paul Taillefer, Edmonton CA
"Dr. Glover, Thank you for your insights for becoming an integrated male. You validated many decisions that I have made over the course of the last few years and have also encouraged me to continue learning, healing and changing for the better. You have given me a fresh perspective on all my relationships, both male and female, and the basis for tools to continue to grow. Again, thank you for illuminating that area of my life that was previously poorly understood by myself."
Paul Allen, Strasburg PA  "I've done a lot of personal growth workshops and a lot of therapy over the years, and I rank you as "a force of nature." Your work is fabulous and much needed. 95% of the time, I'm now the man I want to be; in love, in work, in energy and spirit. My path now makes itself clear; all I have to do is pay attention. Thank you!"Peter Johnson, CA
“Dr Glover has great insight into the masculine mind and habits. If you have a problem being assertive, as I had, or a myriad of other things keeping you from success, I would highly recommend, No More Mr Nice Guy. Even greater still, attending one of his workshops and seeing that what he teaches is for real and applicable to every man.”
Randy H.  "I've been to numerous personal growth seminars and this one definitely ranks up at the top of them. In particular, I found the masculine and feminine chart especially life altering. I have the chart saved in my blackberry, I plastered on my wall at home in my office, and have it with me wherever I go. I even refer to it when I'm on dates! This one topic alone has changed the way I look at my life, the way I see women, and my relationship with women.Brian Young, Toronto, Canada "The TPI Workshop is having a snowball effect on my life and the snowball is working in my favor for a change. Within one week of implementing what I learned in the workshop, I have seen meaningful changes in my life that will last a lifetime. The TPI Workshop is life-changing and it far exceeded my expectations!"
Jeff Moore, Portland, OR  "The workshop was in a word; Fantastic. Dr. Glover takes the time to connect with each member in such a way that you feel the workshop is customized specifically for you. He has a command of many different life issues and he makes them easy to understand. During the course of the day, you can feel the positive energy that’s generated from spending time with other men who are working to improve their lives. I came away with the new skills and techniques I can use to move to higher consciousness. Thank you."Chuck, Fairfax Station VA “Dr. Glover, first thanks for the phenomenal workshop I learned a lot and I can see how it is making me conscious and more aware. I enjoyed connecting with other men who are on the path to recovery. And thanks for the words of wisdom to always speak the truth as a minister."
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