I’m a firm believer that miracles happen around people, so unless you’re around people, not much of interest will happen in your life. Every time I leave my house, I expect a miracle.
I frequently tell the men with whom I work, “I love waking up in the morning, not knowing how my day is going to end.”
I have found that most of the guys I work with don’t have very adventurous lives. This is especially true for the single guys. I have even had guys tell me that not knowing how their day is going to end would be “hell,” not an adventure. These guys love routine and certainty. That’s why they are single and don’t have much chance of that changing.
Reward is won through risk. No way around it.
You can’t steal second with your foot planted on first.
I conclude every one of my Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcasts with the following advice:
Get out of the house.
Expand your route.
Linger in Public.
Talk to everyone you meet.
Test for interest.
Walk through the open doors.