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Dating Essentials for Men

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Most men make dating way too difficult. One of the most common reactions men have to the material presented in Dating Essentials for Men is,

“This is easy. I can do this!”

Dating Essentials for Men makes dating “doable” – the way it should be.

Are You a Bad Dater? - By Dr. Robert

robert-glover-sf-hat-225x300If so, welcome to the club. So was I and so are most of the men walking the planet.

Dating and courting are not in our human DNA. They have only existed in Western culture for a few generations. In the East – not even there yet. Nevertheless, we live in a world where dating skills are essential for finding companionship and love – and of course – sexual partners.

I find that many men struggle at the most basic aspects of dating and mating. For most of us, these skills don’t come naturally and we’ve never had someone show us how.

Fears of doing something wrong, looking foolish, and getting rejected permeate the minds of most men. These fears typically manifest in playing it safe and doing nothing at all, or at best, in clumsy, ineffective attempts at approach.

The all too common outcome of repeated failures leaves many men feeling defective and unlovable. I know, I’ve been there.

For the majority of my life, I was a loser with the ladies and I assumed the good women I was interested in, just weren’t interested in me. But that all changed when I became single in my mid-forties after 25 years of marriage, I came face to face with the reality that I hadn’t dated since college – and that I wasn’t good at it back then.

This time, I approached dating as if it were a scientific experiment.

To my surprise, I found that getting a woman to talk to me, give me her number, date me, and have sex with me was nowhere nearly as difficult as I thought it would be. In fact, I was often amazed at how simple and easy it was when applying the right principles. I frequently pondered, “What planet have I landed on?”

Many of my clients noticed that I was having success meeting women and getting laid – they begged me to teach them what I was doing.

Dating Essentials for Men arose from those requests.

If you had asked me any time before the age of 45 if I would be teaching men how to date I would have said you were crazy. But you know what? If a bad dater like me can learn how to interact confidently with women – get their numbers, get laid, and create great relationships – so can you!

Most bad daters make dating way too difficult. One of the most common reactions men have to what I present in Dating Essentials for Men is,

“This is easy. I can do this!”

Dating may not be a part of our human DNA, but when you know what you are doing and what works, it truly is easy and doable.

Are you ready to join the thousands of men who have successfully transformed their dating and love lives? If so, make the investment in yourself.

I guarantee it, you’ll love the new you!

Dr. Robert Glover

Author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and
Creator of Dating Essentials for Men

P.S., All Dating Essentials for Men materials come with a 100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEE. If the quality and value of any Dating Essentials for Men product doesn’t meet or exceed your expectations, I will gladly refund your money.

Dating Essentials for Men makes dating “doable” – the way it should be.


“Thanks to Dating Essentials for Men, I realized that all my dating frustration was not the result of me being defective in some way, but rather, never having learned this particular skill set. Thanks so much!” – Ron F., Calgary, AB, Canada


 DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN
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Here is what you get with the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle:

DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN EBOOK (Digital)*

DEFM-BookThe Dating Essentials for Men Annotated eBook consists of 19 chapters covering all areas of dating, sex, and relationship. It is a compilation of all of the lessons Dr. Glover taught for over 10 years in his four Dating Essentials for Men online courses.

This illustrated PDF version of the Dating Essentials for Men eBook – exclusively available as part of the DEFM Bonus Bundle – contains quick links to help you find subjects of interest throughout the book. It also includes hyperlinks to additional resources contained in the Dating Essentials for Men Archive – also only available with the DEFM Bonus Bundle.

Dating Essentials for Men is truly the only dating guide you will ever need.


20+ HOURS OF RECORDED Q&A

DEFM-PodcastHave a question about dating? It’s probably been asked before.

When Dr. Glover taught his Dating Essentials for Men material as four online courses, he recorded over 20 hours of live Q&A webinars. In these sessions, Dr. Glover answered questions on every aspect of dating success.

These recordings are a treasure trove of dating and mating wisdom and are now available to you – only as a part of the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle. You cannot get these recordings anywhere else! It is like having a personal dating and relationship boot camp with Dr. Glover – at a fraction of the cost!

Plug in your headphones and go deep as Dr. Glover mixes humor, experience, personal illustrations, and practical “how to” into the best dating, sex, and relationship advice available.


DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN WORKBOOK (Digital)*

DEFM-WorkbookMen love maps. We work best when we have a clear plan of action with a proven history of results.

The Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle contains a Workbook with homework assignments for every chapter of the Dating Essentials for Men eBook.

Dating Essentials for Men works if you work it.

Want results? Get out and practice. And then go out and practice some more. There is no substitute. The DEFM Workbook shows you how to apply the principles and tools of Dating Essentials for Men in ways that will help you achieve the results you want – no more tired pickup lines, canned routines, or lonely nights alone.

The Dating Essentials for Men Workbook is only available as part of the DEFM Bonus Bundle.


DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN Q&A PODCASTS

DEFM-PodcastSoon after launching his Dating Essentials for Men online courses, Dr. Glover began recording personalized responses to questions presented in class discussion forums. These recordings became the Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series. In all, Dr. Glover has recorded over 200 podcasts.

Thousands of these DEFM Q&A Podcasts have been downloaded and have helped change the love life of countless men just like you. The Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle includes the 10 all-time best-selling DEFM Q&A Podcasts.
  • Accurately Reading Indicators of Interest
  • The 3Ts – Touch, Tease, and Tell
  • A Two-Part Series on Bringing Your Sexual Agenda to the Table
  • Questions about Setting the Tone and Taking the Lead
  • Dating Multiple Women
  • A Two-Part Series on Staying out of the Friend Zone
  • A Two-Part Series on Testing for Interest
These 10 podcasts contain a treasure trove of information with the power to transform your dating experience – and get the love and sex you want.

DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN A-Z ENCYCLOPEDIA (Digital)*

DEFM-A-ZAll of Dr. Glover’s Dating Essentials for Men online courses contained an instructor Q&A forum where class members could ask any question relating to dating, attraction, sex, women, and relationships. Here, the good doctor doesn’t hold anything back – he is raw, uncensored, honest, playful, and succinct. He gets right to the heart of every question.

Now, Dr. Glover has cherry-picked the best questions and answers from all of these forums and packed them into the Dating Essentials for Men A-Z Encyclopedia.

Only here you will find a subject-by-subject compilation of over 250 questions answered candidly and practically by Dr. Glover. You will laugh, you will cry, you will smack yourself upside the head – wondering why no one every laid it out it so clearly before.

These nuggets of dating wisdom are exclusively available in the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle.


The Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle is like a personal growth seminar, dating bootcamp, and one to one coaching relationship all wrapped up in one.

Receive over $3,000 worth of dating wisdom, tools, and proven success strategies for only $199 USD.
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Dating Essentials for Men is worth its weight in Gold. I don’t even get nervous talking to beautiful women anymore. It’s amazing how far I have come in such a little amount of time. The information is useful, easy to follow, and most importantly – 100% effective. I’m having the most fun ride of my life and I owe it all to Dr. G.” – Jeremy S. Durham NC


What to Expect from Dating Essentials for Men - By Dr. Robert Glover

I have found that most guys who purchase my Dating Essentials for Men products (classes, workshops, podcasts, etc.) fall into one of two categories:

    men who have never dated well, have had few real girlfriends, and have had little or no sex, or
    men who have recently gotten out of a long-term relationship and are back out in the dating world for the first time in several years.

Occasionally men sign up for my programs because they have been relatively successful with meeting women and dating but want to improve their skills and attitudes. Regardless of your category, the principles I teach will work for you.

Whether you are wanting to learn and practice basic dating skills, develop confidence, get great sex, or meet the woman of your dreams, Dating Essentials for Men will get you moving in the right direction – and bring you proven results!

Dating Essentials for Men will help you:
  •     Clearly identify your goals for dating – and achieve them.
  •     Face your fears and soothe your anxiety.
  •     Learn new, effective skills for dating, mating, and breaking up.
  •     Challenge yourself to act and practice new skills.
It doesn’t matter if you want to date for practice, discover your “Really Great Woman,” or find a “friend with benefits,” Dating Essentials for Men will teach you how.
 
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“Of the various things I’d tried regarding dating, Dr. Glover’s Dating Essentials for Men has been the most powerful and there have been real results. Learning to give myself permission to be a man with an open sexual agenda, I’ve related to women in a much more authentic and less stressful way. It’s meant a richer, more interesting sex and dating life.”  – Oz D., Chicago, IL


THE DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN EBOOK

eBookThe Dating Essentials for Men eBook is made of 19 chapters that cover all areas of dating, sex, and relationship. The eBook is a compilation of all the lessons Dr. Glover taught for over 10 years to thousands of men in his four Dating Essentials for Men online courses. These four courses sold individually for $125 ($500 total) USD.

Click Here for Dating Essentials for Men Table of Contents

You can now get all of this dating wisdom and practical application for only $9.99 in the Dating Essentials for Men eBook – exclusively on Amazon.
 
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 Making Miracles - By Dr. Robert Glover

Relationships usually result from unexpected miracles, and miracles usually happen around people!

Not many miracles happen when you’re sitting at home playing X-box, watching television, or surfing the internet for porn. And not many miracles happen when you’re spending 60 – 70 hours a week at work.

You have to get out of the house and apply the principles presented in Dating Essentials for Men to make your miracles.

Doing this will be scary, but the moment you face your monster, you will be transformed.

Here is what I constantly tell men:
  •     Get out of the house.
  •     Expand your route.
  •     Linger in public.
  •     Talk to people everywhere you go.
  •     Test for interest.
  •     Walk through open doors.
In reality, Dating Essentials for Men is about expanding your social and emotional intelligence – I just use men’s desire to get laid and find love as the motivation for helping them grow up and become interesting people.

As you practice the skills I teach in Dating Essentials for Men, you will also be working on the following essential life skills:
  •     Becoming aware of and confronting self-limiting beliefs.
  •     Stretching yourself and getting out of your comfort zone.
  •     Letting go of attachment to outcome.
  •     Setting the tone and taking the lead.
  •     Getting to rejection quickly.
  •     Becoming a “good ender.”
Not only will DEFM help you get the love and sex you want, it will help you become a more complete, confident person.

Here’s a little secret, when I transformed my love life using the skills I teach in Dating Essentials for Men, I also transformed every other part of my life:
  •     My income shot up
  •     Many unexpected adventures came my way
  •     My business grew
  •     I made new friends
  •     My overall satisfaction in life multiplied
Are you ready to expand every area of your life – and find love and great sex too? Dating Essentials for Men will show you how.
 
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Dating Essentials for Men has opened a world of opportunities for me. My life (and I’m not just talking about the dating aspect) has improved to levels I couldn’t even imagine 5 years ago. It’s hard work, but it’s totally worth it. Thank you Dr. Glover for doing this!” – Adrian, Everett, WA


 DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN
BONUS BUNDLE

Bonus-Bundle$199.00

    1 Annotated, illustrated Dating Essentials for Men eBook *(Digital)

    1 Dating Essentials for Men Workbook *(Digital)

    1 Dating Essentials for Men A – Z Encyclopedia *(Digital)

    20+ hours of recorded live Q&A

    10 Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcasts

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“Soon after applying what I learned in Dating Essentials for Men I was going on two to three dates a week – with a different woman each time! I’ve dated more women in the few months since being introduced to DEFM than I previously did in my entire life. Whether you want to date multiple women at the same time, or find that special person, Dating Essentials for Men works and can help you. DEFM made me realize the truth – I don’t need to put on a mask to attract women, it’s more about taking the mask off.” – R. NY


It Works if You Work It - By Dr. Robert Glover

Dating Essentials for Men focuses on two core areas of dating:

“Mastering Your Mind.” The MYM parts of DEFM will help you become aware of and challenge the false and self-limiting beliefs that keep you stuck at home by yourself every weekend.

“Perfecting Your Practice.” The PYP parts of DEFM will focus on learning new skills and developing new daily routines that will help you meet and talk to women and get what you want in love and sex.

I want to challenge you to bring your “A” game to this material. Just purchasing it and leaving it on your computer or tablet won’t change a goddamn thing in your life.

There is no substitute for putting the principles of Dating Essentials for Men into practice. Don’t try to figure out how to do it “right.” Just get out there and do something. And then get out there and do it some more.

It works if you work it.

Dating Essentials for Men will go after every distorted belief you have about yourself and dating and challenge you to get out of your comfort zone and find out how easy it is to meet and date lots of great women.

Make the commitment to yourself.

Dating Essentials for Men is the last dating guide that you will ever need.


 
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“If you’re looking for a simple and challenging plan without the complex pickup models, this is it. Caution… you must do the work. Dating Essentials for Men will make you extend your comfort zone. When it’s done, you’ll wonder why you had a big problem with this in the first place.” – Michael W., Washington, D.C.


MEET DR. ROBERT GLOVER

The author of Dating Essentials for Men

robert-lupita-mediumDr. Glover is the author of the bestselling book No More Mr. Nice Guy, an Amazon Best-Seller. His website drglover.com features numerous online self-help courses, workshops, podcasts, groups, and trained coaches and therapists.

As the creator of Dating Essentials for Men, Dr. Glover has empowered thousands of men to transform every aspects of their lives. By helping them overcome self-limiting beliefs and learn effective dating skills, these men have become more social, found love and fulfilling relationships, and created satisfying sex lives.

Dr. Glover is married to Lupita Escobar and lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.
 

“I met my wife almost 2 years ago. From the beginning I have been practicing the main rule that I learned in Dating Essentials for Men – set the tone and take the lead. Shortly after meeting her, I caught myself thinking, ‘Wow, I wouldn’t mind marrying this woman!’ And so I did. Thank you.” – Ondřej Čertík, Reno, NV


Approach vs. Attraction - By Dr. Robert Glover

The “Un-Pickup” Guide to Dating Success
 

Why Dating Essentials for Men is Different

A primary goal of Dating Essentials for Men is to help men change their thinking and actions away from “approaching” women to “attracting” them.

I’m not a fan of approach – and especially “pickup” – for a number of reasons.

  • Approach is always based on attachment to outcome (she’s hot and you want her to want you – or least give you her digits).
  • Approach is always predicated by one-dimensional, ego-based measures of attraction (i.e., face, boobs, and ass).
  • Approach gives the woman all the power – she is the decider, not you.
  • Approach makes you the Beta and the woman the Alpha (you are sucking up her).
  • Approach creates a culture of entitlement in women.
  • If you capture your prize, approach locks you into constantly trying to keep her happy and putting up with all kinds of bullshit so she will never leave you.

Shifting the Paradigm ­­– Choose a Woman Who Chooses You

Everything goes much more easily if you practice the principles I teach in Dating Essentials for Men that make you naturally “attractive” to women.

Wouldn’t you rather be the decider about which woman you choose from among many great women who are already expressing high interest in you?

Approach typically amounts to pounding on closed doors, trying to gain entry.

Attraction allows you to choose from many open doors.

Walking through open doors is a hell of lot easier and more rewarding than pounding on closed ones.

What Changed in My Life

Since I started living and practicing the principles of attraction that I teach in Dating Essentials for Men, I have often pondered, “What planet have I landed on?”

When I shifted from an approach-based, “seduction” mentality, women started propositioning me, getting naked on first dates, and calling me at 11:00 PM for hook-ups. I had to start deleting women’s names and numbers from my cell phone every few months because I had so many and couldn’t remember who they all were.

I have never pursued young or attractive women, but the majority of women who express high interest in me are typically many years younger than me and very attractive.

I don’t chase these women; they come to me.

I am now married to an amazing, beautiful woman – who approached me.

Even getting married hasn’t stopped women from signaling their interest in me. My occasionally jealous Latina wife almost daily points out women who are coming on to me or trying to get my attention.

Dating Essentials for Men will show you how to attract an unimaginable number of amazing women into your life.

You get to be the decider. You get to be the Alpha. You get to be the man among men.

Let go of the games, the banter, the tricks, the seduction, the buying women drinks, the volunteering to help their sisters move – the pounding on closed doors.

Learn how to create the kind of attraction that brings women to you. Then just walk through the open door (it really is that easy).

You will wonder what planet you’ve landed on.


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“I’ve gotten more out of Dating Essentials for Men than I have out of 10 years of PUA opinion-based crap. The concept of testing for interest alone is a huge step forward and being a good ender is critical.” – George L., Denver, CO


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