Dating Essentials for Men

Dating Doesn't Have to be Difficult

Most men make dating way too difficult. One of the most common reactions men have to the material presented in Dating Essentials for Men is,

“This is easy. I can do this!”

Dating Essentials for Men makes dating “doable” – the way it should be.

Dating Essentials for Men, the Only Dating Guide You Will Ever Need
Welcome to Dating Essentials for Men

Dating Essentials for Men, by Dr. Robert Glover, the author of the groundbreaking, No More Mr. Nice Guy, is the “un-pickup” guide to dating success.

Are you ready to let go of the games, the tricks, the seduction, the pickup, the negs, the cocky-funny routines, the buying women drinks, the volunteering to help their sister move?

Do you want to learn how to create the kind of authentic attraction that naturally brings women to you?

If so, Dating Essentials for Men is the only dating guide you will ever need.

“Thanks to Dating Essentials for Men, I realized that all my dating frustration was not the result of me being defective in some way, but rather, never having learned this particular skill set. Thanks so much!” – Ron F., Calgary, AB, Canada


eBookThe Dating Essentials for Men eBook is made of 19 chapters that cover all areas of dating, sex, and relationship. The eBook is a compilation of all the lessons Dr. Glover taught for over 10 years to thousands of men in his four Dating Essentials for Men online courses. These four courses sold individually for $125 ($500 total) USD.

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You can now get all of this dating wisdom and practical application for only $9.99 in the Dating Essentials for Men eBook – exclusively on Amazon.

Dating Essentials for Men is worth its weight in Gold. I don’t even get nervous talking to beautiful women anymore. It’s amazing how far I have come in such a little amount of time. The information is useful, easy to follow, and most importantly – 100% effective. I’m having the most fun ride of my life and I owe it all to Dr. G.” – Jeremy S. Durham NC

The Only Dating Guide You Will Ever Need

Dating Essentials for Men contains the best dating advice for men available. It is overflowing with tested, proven information that will help you:

  • Identify your goals for dating – and achieve them.
  • Face your fears and soothe your anxiety.
  • Develop naturally powerful inner game.
  • Talk to women with confidence.
  • Test for interest.
  • Understand what women want in a man.
  • Successfully use online dating.
  • Create powerful sexual polarity.
  • Stay out of the friend zone.
  • Effectively flirt and banter – even with the most attractive women.
  • Successfully date after a divorce or break up.
  • Pass women’s shit tests.
  • Send text messages that create instant attraction and arousal.
  • Break up with integrity.

It doesn’t matter if you want to hook up, create a loving long-term relationship (LTR), get married and have kids, or create a harem filled with “friends with benefits,” Dating Essentials for Men will teach you how.

“Of the various things I’d tried regarding dating, Dr. Glover’s Dating Essentials for Men has been the most powerful and there have been real results. Learning to give myself permission to be a man with an open sexual agenda, I’ve related to women in a much more authentic and less stressful way. It’s meant a richer, more interesting sex and dating life.”  – Oz D., Chicago, IL


Become a dating master, put your love life on steroids with the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle.

Here is what you get with the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle:



Have a question about dating? Sex? Women? Since launching Dating Essentials for Men, Dr. Glover has been holding live Q&A webinars to answers questions from men of all ages from all over the world. These recordings are a treasure trove of dating and mating wisdom.

Now, you can listen to these live Q&As in their entirety (currently over 45-hours worth) or listen to edited clips by subject (currently over 400 separate clips). These recordings are only available in the DEFM Bonus Bundle. Plus – the number of searchable audio clips and hours of entire Q&A recordings keep growing every month.


DEFM-WorkbookMen love maps. We work best when we have a clear plan of action with a proven history of results.

The Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle contains a Workbook with homework assignments for every chapter of the Dating Essentials for Men eBook.

Dating Essentials for Men works if you work it.

Want results? Get out and practice. And then go out and practice some more. There is no substitute. The DEFM Workbook shows you how to apply the principles and tools of Dating Essentials for Men in ways that will help you achieve the results you want – no more tired pickup lines, canned routines, or lonely nights alone.

The Dating Essentials for Men Workbook is only available as part of the DEFM Bonus Bundle.


CoachingGet Hands on Direction

Every month, Dr. Glover will lead a live online coaching session with men who have purchased the DEFM Bonus Bundle. Get your dating, relationship, sex, and women-related questions answered live and in-person by Dr. Glover. These live sessions will be recorded and added to the Bonus Bundle stash every month. The value of Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle will keep growing over time.


DEFM-PodcastSoon after launching his Dating Essentials for Men online courses, Dr. Glover began recording personalized responses to questions presented in class discussion forums. These recordings became the Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series. In all, Dr. Glover has recorded over 200 podcasts.

Thousands of these DEFM Q&A Podcasts have been downloaded and have helped change the love life of countless men just like you. The Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle includes the 10 all-time best-selling DEFM Q&A Podcasts.
  • Accurately Reading Indicators of Interest
  • The 3Ts – Touch, Tease, and Tell
  • A Two-Part Series on Bringing Your Sexual Agenda to the Table
  • Questions about Setting the Tone and Taking the Lead
  • Dating Multiple Women
  • A Two-Part Series on Staying out of the Friend Zone
  • A Two-Part Series on Testing for Interest
These 10 podcasts contain a treasure trove of information with the power to transform your dating experience – and get the love and sex you want.


MastermindGet a Community of Virtual Wingmen

Men who purchase the Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle receive an invitation to join the private DEFM Facebook mastermind group. Here you can give and get support and encouragement in a community of virtual wingmen. You don’t have to go it alone. Join other men just like you from around the world who are successfully learning and applying Dr. Glover’s lessons to their dating, love, and sex lives.

The Dating Essentials for Men Bonus Bundle is like a personal growth seminar, dating bootcamp, and one to one coaching relationship all wrapped up in one.

Receive over $3,000 worth of dating wisdom, tools, and proven success strategies for only $250 USD.
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Dating Essentials for Men has opened a world of opportunities for me. My life (and I’m not just talking about the dating aspect) has improved to levels I couldn’t even imagine 5 years ago. It’s hard work, but it’s totally worth it. Thank you Dr. Glover for doing this!” – Adrian, Everett, WA
What Planet Have I Landed On? - By Dr. Robert Glover

If you struggle with dating, welcome to the club. Dating is not in our human DNA. It has only existed in Western culture for a few generations, and in the East – not even there yet. Nevertheless, we live in a world where dating skills are essential for finding companionship, love, and sex.

98% of all men struggle with the most basic aspects of dating. Fears of doing something wrong, looking foolish, getting rejected, or becoming a #MeToo casualty permeate the minds of most men. These fears typically manifest in playing it safe and doing nothing at all, or at best, in clumsy, ineffective attempts at approach. The all too common outcome of repeated failures leaves many men feeling defective and unlovable.

For the majority of my life, I was one of these guys. I assumed the good women I wanted just weren’t interested in me. When I did get a girlfriend, I typically hung on way too long for fear of having to enter the dating world all over again. But that all changed when I became single in my mid-forties.

I decided to approach dating as if it were a scientific experiment. To my surprise, I quickly found that getting women to talk to me, give me their numbers, date me, and have sex with me was nowhere nearly as difficult as I had thought. When women started approaching me, propositioning me for sex, and getting naked on first dates, I often wondered what planet I had landed on.

Many of My clients noticed my dating success and begged me to teach them what I was doing. Dating Essentials for Men arose from those requests. I have since taught thousands of men just like you how to interact confidently with women – get numbers, get laid, get amazing girlfriends, and create great relationships.

Dating Essentials for Men makes dating “doable” – the way it should be.

Dr. Robert Glover

Author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and
Creator of Dating Essentials for Men

“If you’re looking for a simple and challenging plan without the complex pickup models, this is it. Caution… you must do the work. Dating Essentials for Men will make you extend your comfort zone. When it’s done, you’ll wonder why you had a big problem with this in the first place.” – Michael W., Washington, D.C.

Take Dating Essentials for Men with you everywhere you go. Dr. Glover has recorded over 200 Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcasts on every area of dating. Now, you can take your game to the next level while working out at the gym or driving in your car.

Podcasts Dr GloverPodcasts cover topics like:

  • How to Deal With Strong and/or Controlling Women
  • Accurately Reading Indicators of Interest (IOI)
  • Creating Positive Emotional Tension With Women
  • Boundaries and Bad Behavior
  • Setting the Tone and Taking the Lead
  • Bringing Your Sexual Agenda to the Table
  • Being an Integrated “Man Whore”
  • Creative Ways to Use Online Dating

“I met my wife almost 2 years ago. From the beginning I have been practicing the main rule that I learned in Dating Essentials for Men – set the tone and take the lead. Shortly after meeting her, I caught myself thinking, ‘Wow, I wouldn’t mind marrying this woman!’ And so I did. Thank you.” – Ondřej Čertík, Reno, NV


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  • 12 Monthly Live Mastermind Coaching Q&A Call
  • Private Facebook Mastermind Group
  • 1 Dating Essentials for Men Workbook (Digital)
  • 50+ hours of recorded live Q&A
  • 10 Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcasts
All this for $250.00

“I’ve read the book and listened to Dr. Glover’s Dating Essentials for Men podcasts. All I can say is that it’s all simply dynamite! I feel confident approaching and interacting with women. Many thanks, Dr. Glover!” Jason, Adelaide, Australia


Sign up for my Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Newsletter and every Friday I will send you my response to a different question about dating, sex, and relationship. Get a fresh dose of Dating Essentials for Men every week in your inbox. Stay motivated, avoid dating mistakes, cut through the bullshit, and get down to what works.

Free Podcast: When you register for my weekly DEFM Q&A Newsletter, you will also receive an exclusive Dating Essentials for Men Podcast on “Using a Woman’s Shit-Tests to Your Advantage.This podcast is only available to subscribers of my newsletter.

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“I’ve gotten more out of Dating Essentials for Men than I have out of 10 years of PUA opinion-based crap. The concept of testing for interest alone is a huge step forward and being a good ender is critical.” – George L., Denver, CO



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