The following therapists and coaches have completed extensive training and certification with Dr. Robert Glover. They are Certified No More Mr. Nice Guy Coaches and Therapists.
Each coach and therapist offers their own unique approach to helping men break free from the Nice Guy Syndrome and become Integrated Men. These professionals are highly trained and are licensed or certified in their unique field.
While Dr. Glover verifies that the coaches and therapists on the list below are qualified professionals and have completed NMMNG Certification, Dr. Glover cannot take responsibility for nor is he liable for the individual actions or practices of these professionals. If for any reason, you have concern about the professional ability or actions of any of these professionals, please contact Dr. Glover.
Click on a city below to find a Certified No More Mr. Nice Guy therapist or life coach in your area.
Scroll down to see the bios of all certified coaches and therapists.
Click on a city below to find a group near you led by a Certified No More Mr. Nice Guy therapist or life coach.
Michael Ballard, PhD
Denver, CO, USA
Dr. Michael Ballard is a licensed psychologist who has worked for over fifteen years with men, teenage boys, couples, and families. His areas of specialty include anger management, anxiety and depression, substance use, and relationship problems. He is a recovering nice guy who understands what it is like to struggle with Nice Guy tendencies, and knows how to learn from these struggles and build a life of strength, healthy relationships, and conscious living. Patients appreciate Michael's direct style, creative interventions, and use of humor in their sessions. He works collaboratively with patients to create goals that are specific to your life and your needs, and then works at meeting those goals with support and accountability.
Chuck works with Nice Guys who have fucked up in their relationships and want real answers on how to make things work. He helps Men who are tired of doing the same thing repeatedly only to get the same results to rebuild their broken marriages or find the fortitude to bury a relationship that died long ago. He only works with a handful of men each year who are tired of being in sexless and dysfunctional marriages/relationships and want to make dramatic changes in their lives.
Chuck holds a Bachelor of Science in Human Development and a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology. He is the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy: The 30-Day Recovery Journal and personal assistant to Dr. Robert Glover. Because of his own recovery, Chuck is ardent about helping Nice Guys transform into Good Men.
“Chuck is one of those men whose personal path and career passions are one and the same. Chuck is committed to his own personal growth and evolutions as a man and brings that same energy and focus into his work with recovering Nice Guys. If you’re looking for a mentor, coach, or teacher who walks his talk, Chuck may just be the person you’ve been seeking. “ Robert Glover
Find out more by visiting his website niceguyhelp.com
Denver, CO, USA
Ken Curry is a father, husband, mentor, friend and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). His specialty is manhood, masculinity and relationships. He is a recovering Nice Guy who is continually exploring new avenues of strength, vitality and purpose.
Ken works from the premise that masculinity is good and that each man brings significance into our world and that men have been designed to move with freedom, presence and strength. Along with individual and relationship counseling, Ken provides ongoing groups for men to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome and to build personal integrity in order to influence the world with intent and passion. Ask him about other possibilities as well, for instance, he is developing an online community for men for support, education and personal growth.
For group information: Email Ken Curry
Ari Graff, Psy.D.
Email Ari Graff
Ari has been a therapist for 20 years but found his true calling helping Nice Guys become confident men. Through his own recovery process, Ari turned the pain of divorce and becoming a single parent into a catalyst for his own growth. Now he loves to help other men get unstuck, whether they struggle with dating, marriage, career, parenting, friendships, or health. He understands that inside every Nice Guy is a masterful man ready to break free of the beliefs and habits that hold him back. Ari believes that men need both challenge and great self-care to be their best.
Ari is a licensed clinical psychologist in Illinois. He has specialized training in neuropsychology and rehabilitation and has worked extensively with people who have AD/HD and other disabilities. He offers online therapy, coaching, and men’s groups in his private practice.
Boston, MA, USA
Ted Helm has been practicing psychotherapy since 1999, including as the director of an intensive group therapy program. He has been involved in the NMMNG recovery community since 2000. In addition to working with recovering Nice Guys, Ted works with adults on a wide range of problems and teaches cooking as a chef-instructor.
Michael is passionate about meetings guys where they are at and working towards getting the most out of life together. Having been able to work through his own nice-guy habits, hopes to connect with other men who feel that there may be more out there waiting from them. He currently works in a private practice setting in the center of Metro-Detroit and welcoming new clients. He will also be starting two "No More Nice Guy!" Groups in the near future to help serve the men of the motor-city. He aspires to help men empower and arm themselves with insight, enjoyment, and passion to a earn great life in career, finance, relationship, and most importantly, for themselves! Please feel free to reach out for a free 15-minute consult so he can best help you get connected.
Seattle, WA, USA
Michael has been practicing therapy since 2005. In his work with men, he seeks to help clients find a strong sense of self and a feeling of mastery. Through cognitive, experiential, and bodywork approaches, Michael works to increase a client's freedom of action, which arises from increasing freedom of feeling, freedom of movement, and freedom of self-expression.
New York, NY
Daniel is a licensed clinical social worker based in New York City. Reading No More Mr. Nice Guy in 2003 was a revelation to him and has continued to be 'go to' for him, both personally and in his work. He believes in the power of embracing honesty (with self and others), presence, challenge, play, and forgiveness (again, of self and others). It is a gift for him to witness men come out from hiding to live exciting, meaningful, and authentic lives. His practice is strongly informed by his background in mindfulness meditation, including have attended 5 week-long silent meditation retreats. Daniel feels blessed to have the opportunity to help men move from a place of fear and shame towards authenticity
Steve is an experienced therapist and coach who specializes in working with recovering Nice Guys. Steve offers professionally facilitated men’s groups in Portland, Seattle, and online for men located anywhere in the world. He also works with both individuals and couples in person, online, or over the phone.
For group information: Email Steven Sutton
Torrance, CA, USA
Email Chris Aguilar
I have been really fortunate to live a very colorful journey. I spent 10 years in technology consulting working as a COO for a firm in Los Angeles. From there I went on to follow my passion of filmmaking and won several awards for my work as a documentary film maker. When I found Dr. Glover's book my own mediocrity in other areas of my life suddenly made sense. The divorce, string of difficult relationships, a seeming inability to move forward. The depression and anxiety. Through the work in No More Mr. Nice Guy and the support of a group of men I trust, I have found some of my true callings, and part of that is coaching and working with other Nice Guys. Many of my clients are creatives who are "stuck" but I also work with individuals around recovery and addiction. I am also an athletic trainer and truly believe in combining the mind/body connection to recovery. I offer in office and remote coaching.
Silicon Valley and San Francisco Peninsula, CA, USA
After a successful tech career in Silicon Valley, Ata followed his dreams of working with others as a coach and mentor. In addition to topics covering MNG, his work evolves around invitation to our essential selves, into our courageous hearts, and into integrity with ourselves as a platform for healthier relationships. Currently he facilitates several ongoing weekly men's support groups in the SF Bay Area, in addition to his executive coaching and team building business. He is a recovering Mr. Nice Guy, with a deep commitment to helping men become integrated and emotionally healthy human beings. He creates a safe and confidential container whereby men share their lives authentically with other men, get to know and work with emotions, and experience non-judgmental and non-competitive masculine support.
Ata utilizes years of training and practice in mindfulness-based psychotherapy, the Enneagram of personality assessment, Non-violent Communication, and CoActive coaching skills, while working with individuals who seek 1:1 coaching.
For group information: Email Ata Amiri
Rowan has been working as a business coach in London for over a decade. Being trained in various teachings in personal and spiritual development, he coaches business leaders to transcend limited beliefs and step into their greatness, allowing their businesses and lives to thrive and flourish.
As a recovering Nice Guy, Rowan has managed to go from near bankruptcy to running a thriving coaching and consulting business by working through and overcoming many of his own Nice Guy tendencies. As a result, not only has his business flourished but he shares more meaningful and fulfilling relationships with his children and family and friends and a far deeper intimacy with his partner.
Because of his desire to help Nice Guys undo their limiting conditioning and come into their native masculine power, Rowan is working to build a community and offer workshops and seminars as well as one to one sessions to support recovering Nice Guys in the UK, to help men who long to serve their loved ones and the world from their balls and from their heart, rather than from their Nice Guy.
Rowan is known to compassionately and relentlessly get to the heart of the matter in his coaching and training. In his workshops and one to one sessions Rowan supports men to identify their Nice Guy patterns and transform them; embody leadership, create financial abundance, attract a lover or lovers, create and sustain a loving, intimate relationship with their chosen partner, discover and enjoy their native sexuality and cultivate presence as an art of love.
For group information go to: www.meetup.com/Mens-group-NoMoreMrNiceGuy-UK/
Integrated Man Therapist
7495 W. Azure Dr., #110
Las Vegas, NV 89130
Email Mark Edward
“I’ve dedicated my life to helping, educating, and supporting men to become their best since hosting my first men’s group at age 25. My life purpose is to bring men’s hearts to life and inspire greatness in others”, says Davis.
In 2014 he was named Dating Coach of the Year and Matchmaker of the Year finalist by the iDate Conference. He’s a licensed Christian Counselor and He’s helped over 300 become married with only 2 divorced in the past decade. He’s been hosting a weekly talk show for men since March of 2011; covering topics like confidence, entrepreneurship, relationships, and more.
He’s also been through a lot in life himself; experiencing the loss of a spouse and financial bankruptcy. He has had to overcome ‘nice guy’ tendencies in order to find his own voice in the world and can relate to the struggles of men today. Set up a free consultation to see if it makes sense to work together: Click Here
New Orleans, LA, USA
Tony Endelman is an author, entrepreneur, humorist, music nut, popular self-help blogger, heartbreak recovery expert, certified transformational life coach and certified NMMNG Coach. Tony’s website is consistently named one of the Top 100 Self-Development Blogs. His no-bullshit brand of self-help has been featured on The Huffington Post, YAHOO!, Thrive Global, Lifehack, Mindvalley, Thought Catalog, The Good Men Project, and other places.
Tony is the founder of The Integrated Man Cave, a website and online community for men who wish to improve all aspects of their lives. You can visit The Integrated Man Cave at www.integratedmancave.com.
Tony is formally trained in Strategic Intervention, which pulls from a variety of disciplines including: Ericksonian therapy, strategic family therapy, human needs psychology, organizational psychology, neurolinguistics, psychology of influence and strategic studies. The term “Strategic Intervention” was coined by Tony Robbins to describe his highly effective change work.
Tony has overcome extreme anxiety, debilitating depression, and a severe case of Nice Guy Syndrome to create the life he has always wanted. He can help you do the same.
Since becoming a certified NMMNG coach, Tony has worked with hundreds of Nice Guys in both one-on-one and group settings. He is passionately dedicated to helping men reach their full potential and start getting what they want in love and in life.
Tony was born and raised in Omaha, Nebraska, but currently lives in New Orleans, which he considers to be the greatest city in the world. Visit Tony's website to learn more and schedule a free introductory conversation.
André has been in the self development field for 5 years and has a deep desire to support men to step into the core of their masculinity. With his unique story and through the teachings from several schools of personal and spiritual development, he has found a deep calling in helping nice guys recover.
With his calm, present and strong persona, André will support his clients to step into authenticity and integrity. André specialises in male sexual health and thus becoming the best sexual version of your self, maintaining and growing your intimate relationships and finding your deepest most authentical purpose.
Alister helps men face life's challenges or the hero's journeys that constantly test us and our ability to stand in our healthy masculine in the world. If you are feeling a little lost on your journey to recovery from Nice Guys stuff, then he understands, he has been working on himself a long time and gets the struggle. There isn't any pill for this stuff, and he firmly believes we have to walk through the shadow in order to see the light. Alister will guide you on this journey to a better relationship with yourself and your partner.
Alister has been working with men since his own initiation into men's circles in 2006. He has been an entrepreneur most of his life and has been involved in technology and software development, more recently international sales and marketing of health products and has run his own sales and marketing business up until last year. He is well-travelled through his previous companies and has spent a lot of time in the USA, Japan, China and Europe. Currently retraining to be a counsellor, his 'Second Mountain' work in the world is supporting men to be the best they can be. He is trained in trauma therapy, CBT, narrative therapy and holistic healing. Alister loves group work and has run men's circles for almost 16 years. He is in his second marriage and has two adult kids and an under 10 year old.
Alister runs a coaching business via Zoom and works with clients from around the world. He runs a 12-week coaching program that looks at all the aspects of Nice Guy recovery along with general life coaching practices. His clients appreciate the flexible program that works on the essentials while dancing with the things that come up in daily life. He works on both big picture life things and also navigates the trickiness of relationships.
Hamburg, Deutschland / Germany, Europa / Europe
Sprachen / Languages: Deutsch & Englisch
Deutsch/German (english below):
Matthias ist LifeCoach, Gruppen Leiter, Vater, Gründer und Geschäftsführer mehrerer Firmen und ein Ex-Nice-Guy. Seit 2014 arbeitet er stetig an sich und bringt all sein Wissen aus dem Geschäfts-, Dating-, Ehe-, und des Vater-Lebens in die Arbeit mit Ex-Nice-Guys ein. Er ist seit 2017 zertifizierter NMMNG Coach und kombiniert dieses Wissen mit den Erkenntnissen aus NLP, Survivaltrainings, Feuerläufen (seit 2016 FireWalkInstructor) und Eiswanderungen. Als Herausforderung empfiehlt er Ex-Nice-Guys: KravMaga und Poker, weil bei diesen beiden Aktivitäten alle Nice Guy Probleme angegangen werden. In seiner monatlichen Männergruppe hilft er Männern ihre Ziele und Wünsche zu erreichen und mit sich und Frauen im Alltag besser klar zu kommen. Matthias bietet sowohl Einzel- und Gruppen-Coachings an, als auch Fern-Coachings via Skype oder Google Hangouts in Deutsch und Englisch.
Matthias is a life coach, group facilitator, father, founder and active CEO of several companies and a recovering Nice Guy. Since 2014 he works on his self and helps recovering nice guys with the knowledge out of being in business, dating, marriage and a father. 2017 he was certified as NMMNG Coach and combines these framework with the experiences out of NLP, Survival trainings, Fire Walks (Instructor since 2016) and ice hikes. As a challenge for recovering nice guys he recommends: KravMaga and Poker, because you have to deal with almost all nice guy trades in these activities. He founded the first NMMNG Support group in Germany and helps since 2015 monthly men to get their goals and needs met with women and in life. Matthias offers One On One- and Group-Coaching as well as Long Distance-consultations via Skype or Google Hangouts in German and English.
San Francisco, CA, USA
Greg comes to us from the Martha Beck Institute for life coaching. A former social worker turned IT pro, Greg started his Nice Guy recovery during his divorce in 2012. Along this path he found Martha Beck and rekindled his passion for service and personal development.
In addition to what he has learned as a certified NMMNG life coach, Greg utilizes tools from Martha Beck which includes The Work of Byron Katie. He also pulls from the Contextual Behavioral disciplines, most notably Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Compassion Focused Therapy.
Greg works with all sorts of clients but technology workers in particular find that he speaks their language.
Fabio Lisca is a Life, Executive and Team Coach, Certified at the International Coach Federation. His experience as a coach started in 2004 where he followed newly promoted managers to enhance the skills required by higher positions of responsibility. He held managerial positions in several companies and worked as a consultant for medium-sized and multinational companies, providing human asset management services in three main areas: organizational development, organizational design and change management. Fabio dedicated his life to self-improvement and self-discovery through group psychotherapy, Center for Creative Leadership Program, Hofmann Process and now he is committed to supporting other in the process of discovering an authentic self. In 2016 he became a Certified “No More Mr. Nice Guy” coach and offer group and individual coaching focusing on recovery from the Nice Guy Syndrome based on Dr. Robert Glover’s work and teachings.
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Tim's crusade of the masculine accelerated after receiving a tantric bodywork session in The Netherlands in 2015 while abroad working as an Oil and Gas expat. The emotional release and spiritual realization was so profound he immediately joined The New Tantra school attending The Hardcore Men's retreat, and receiving certification for tantric bodywork. "This practice has cracked me wide open putting me face to face with my fears, limiting beliefs, and taught me how to love myself. It has reinvigorated my marriage and relationships with my children. I continue to find purpose in supporting others through masculine practise, sexual coaching, and bodywork.”.
As a football player growing up he felt a missing link in his personal development, it has been through deep tantric practice and NMMNG teachings that he has truly been able to step into his power and create a new form of comradery in his life and provides these transforming imprints within the brotherhood.
Tim believes men are in their deepest truth when following their life's purpose; this state of flow allows us to stand in our strong masculine presence.
Tim provides support through ongoing NMMNG groups, 1 on 1 coaching (Skype available), High Test. Men's Retreats, and physical bodywork release.
Sydney, AU / Online Coaching
San Diego, CA, USA / Online Coaching
I help Nice Guys solve one or more of the following life problems:
* Lack of sex, love, connection and affection from women
* Feeling stuck in a bad relationship with a woman
* Feeling stuck in a bad career/job
* Lacking safe male friends for support
All of these problems are costing you time and money.
Time is literally the currency of our lives. You can’t get it back. If you’re wasting time feeling stuck, that’s a lack of quality time. Your life might be slipping away from you.
Money is what keeps our lives running and improving. You might be spending too much money on women who friend zone you. Or you might be leaving money on the table by staying in a career that’s not serving you. Or you might not be investing or spending wisely.
How many more years do you want to waste time and money?
If you’re familiar with Dr. Glover’s work, odds are you’re stuck in this loop:
But you’re not actually doing anything in the real world. You’re not actually getting better year over year.
Let’s break that loop right now. Do the following:
The call is free. Click here and we’ll talk.
Want to recover from the Nice Guy Syndrome?
Philip is a best-selling author, online business successor, coach, and consultant, and runs prestigious NMMNG certified life, relationship, and sex coach – therapist groups, boot-camps, and workshops accessible from all over the world and you’re just one click away to being a recovering Nice Guy TODAY!
As a recovering Nice Guy, Philip has gone through two massively abusive, spouse related marriages and divorces in his lifetime and has managed to go from near bankruptcy in 2007 to being a well sought and successful online business training coach and consultant, known to his clients as The Mystical Traffic God who specializes in helping business owners, online advertisers, and affiliates use paid online traffic to get a 3 to 1 or more return on investment without wasting time and spending time on more important things in the process.
Over the last 13 years, Philip has driven 100% commitment to attend and has spent thousands of dollars in workshops, trainings, and boot-camps to overcome and regain social skills to feel confident and comfortable in every situation, overcome fears, doubts, social anxiety, and insecurities, and has mastered the art of dating, conversation, and communication skills that eliminate nervousness and anxiety to making flawless first impressions and relationships that last a lifetime.
Because of his driven commitment and desire to help Nice Guys overcome and conquer deep fears of rejection, self-doubt, social anxiety, insecurities, approval seeking, toxic shame, lack of sexual confidence, and much more while mastering the art of dating, social skills, masculine power, and confidence that naturally attract quality people that deepen your relationships in the process, Philip is dedicated to build a community to offer boot-camps, workshops, seminars, and freebased trainings accompanied by offering one on one sessions to support recovering Nice Guys in his community, Canada, and internationally.
To Nice Guys, Philip is now transforming into one of the best world-class sex, life, and relationship coaches where you too can gain the confidence in your dating, relationships, social, professional, and personal life while mastering the art of masculine power in the process starting today.
For more information and contact visit: https://theartofmasculinepower.com
Austin, TX, USA
Jim Parker is a group facilitator, Master Certified Coach and author. He brings 18 years of coaching experience in supporting people in transformation, career change, and business success. He is a member of International Coach Federation and the Austin ICF chapter.
Jim has been on a journey of transformation since 1988. His journey included a 5 year spiritual sabbatical, 12 step programs, individual and group therapy and trips to Oneness University in India in 2012 and 2013. Offering NMMNG groups allows Jim to be a support for other men as they continue their journey to transformation.
San Francisco Bay, CA, USA
Does this thought pattern describe you (or a man you know)?
** If I am a good guy, then everyone will love me and like me (and people I desire will desire me).
** If I meet other people’s needs without them having to ask, then they will meet my needs without me having to ask.
** If I do everything right, then I will have a smooth, problem-free life.
Dr. Robert Glover, in his book No More Mr. Nice Guy, identifies these thought patterns as “covert contracts” and notes: “Because most Nice Guys believe they have kept their side of the contract, they often feel helpless and resentful when other people (and the world) don’t keep their side of the contract.”
Ted Riter is trained and certified by Dr. Glover to teach “Nice Guys” how to break this lifelong pattern of unhealthy living and toxic relationships. If you’re ready for your breakthrough (or know a man who is), contact him for one-on-one training (firstname.lastname@example.org) or join his new virtual group that begins in February.
For more information on the virtual group and to register click here
Kirkland, WA, USA
John Sambrook is a certified Nice Guy coach. As of 2022, he has been in recovery from his own Nice Guy habits for six years.
Any Nice Guy behaviors you may have are not your fault. What Dr. Glover calls a "great cake of a life" is available to you.
Creating your future life is easier than you might think. As you do the work you will be pleasantly surprised by how your new life opens up for you. There will also be some bumps along the way, but nothing you can't handle.
When you work with John, you will find that he listens carefully and with respect. He will help you examine your thinking from
different angles, and from time to time he will provide you with options you may want to consider. He will also help you role-play
or practice any conversations you may want to have with others.
John works with men on an individual basis, and he also offers the option of participation in private men's groups that he organizes and facilitates.
If you are in the Seattle area you can connect with John in
person, or if you prefer, you can work with John virtually, either
via Zoom or by telephone.
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Paul is a life coach, group facilitator, teacher, father and businessman. He brings his own personal experience of addiction recovery, self-help, growth and development from varied sources into his commitment to helping men truly become the integrated man that we all have deep inside of us. He was certified as a NMMNG Coach in 2013, and completed his personal & life Coaching certification in 2015. Paul is proud to be offering the first NMMNG Support group in Canada, supporting Men reach their personal goals in their lives.
For group information: Email Paul Taillefer
Chris Wallace, BST, CH, advisor to men, mentor at large
Ottawa, Canada and worldwide on zoom
(416) 859-5565 or (855) 859-5565
Email Chris Wallace
Since 2015, Michael has been helping guys recover from alcohol, drug, and behavioral addictions as part of the 12 Step community in Los Angeles. As a recovering Nice Guy, he knows what challenges face us regarding women, family, coworkers, bosses, and friends. Under Dr. Glover, Michael has learned what it takes to reconnect with masculinity, to challenge oneself and be bold, and has experienced the results firsthand. He runs No More Mr. Nice Guy groups and workshops, writes about recovery, and loves to speak.
He also specializes in relationships—working with guys and couples to understand attachment styles, build better partnerships, and enhance their sex lives.
You can learn more at www.michaelzick.com.
As a coach and trainer in Ondrej Zoubek Coaching Institute, Ondrej has dedicated his life to empowering guys on their way through life. Delivering Personal Breakthrough Workshops across Europe and working individually, Ondrej focuses on enabling guys to overcome all their perceived boundaries so they can truly live the life they dream about. Are you ready to redefine what is possible? Are you ready to finally tap into your highest potential? Drop me few lines into an email and begin the journey to transform your life.
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