Back in high school and college, when I wanted to ask a woman out, I would first spend several weeks thinking about her. I would imagine what it would be like to be with her. My fear, self-limiting beliefs, and lack of skills prevented me from just approaching her and asking her out.
When I finally got up the nerve to approach the woman I had been obsessing about, I would wait until the last minute, walk up to her awkwardly and blurt out something like, "I don't guess you would want to go out with me tonight, would you?" She would usually respond with a look of surprise and say something like, "Oh, I already have plans for tonight." Then I would feel foolish, retreat, and never talk to her again.
When I did succeed in getting a girlfriend, I would hang on to her forever because I didn't want to repeat the process of having to start dating all over again.
This time around, I realized that I would have to learn to do things a lot differently. Here is what I did.
I applied the principles contained in my book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy" to meeting women.
I began reading and listening to dating and "seduction" books and CD's.
Then most importantly, I began applying these principles to see what worked and what didn't. I approached dating as if it were a scientific experiment.
To my surprise, I found that getting women to talk to me, give me their phone numbers, date me, and have sex with me was nowhere nearly as difficult as I thought it would be. In fact, I was often amazed at how simple and easy it could be when applying the right principles.
As I began to have dating success, many of my single clients started asking me to describe to them what I was doing that was working so well. Out of these requests came Dating Essentials for Men.
What began as a weekend workshop to present the concepts and skills to a few, has grown into four online courses and a weekly Q&A Podcast that have now helped thousands of men get what they want in love and sex.
Most Men Make Dating Way Too Difficult
One of the most common reactions men have to the material I present in my Dating Essentials for Men courses, workshops, and podcasts is "This is easy, I can do this!"
By showing you how simple it is to talk to women, get their phone numbers, date them, and get them into bed, it increases the likelihood that you will actually get out there and do it.
Dating Essentials for Men is not pickup.
I won’t turn you into a “Geek with Techniques.”
My goal is to help you expand your social and emotional intelligence to where approaching women, talking to them, and asking them out feels perfectly natural and easy to you.
Dating Essentials for Men will teach you how to:
You will be amazed at how easy it is to meet women, talk to them, get their phone numbers, and even get them into your bed when you learn and practice what really works!
Clearly identify your goals for dating -- and achieve them
Face your fears and soothe your anxiety
Learn new, effective skills for dating, mating and breaking up
Challenge yourself to act and practice new skills
What One Man Can do Another Man Can Do
If a dating loser like me can learn how to meet women, get numbers, feel confident, get laid, and find a Really Great Woman – ANYONE CAN!
There is no reason to be single unless you want to be!
Check out all of the resources below to help you put your intention into action.
"Your podcasts are like a secret code ring to today's life challenges." John G, New York, NY
Are you looking for straightforward answers to the "how to" of real-life dating situations?
Is it beyond your budget to fly to LA or New York to take a weekend boot camp with some hotshot pickup artist?
Do you want to get all the answers you're searching for delivered right to your mp3 player?
Are you looking for the best advice you can get that will help you get the results you want -- NOW?Dating Essentials for Men Q&A podcasts cover every aspect of approach, dating, sex, and relationships.
Complete Dating Essentials Q&A Podcast Archive
Become aware of and challenge your false (and self-limiting) beliefs that keep you stuck at home by yourself every weekend.
Develop and practice the skills to approach women with confidence, date successfully, and get the love and sex you want.
Dating Essentials for Men Online Courses:
Lesson 2: The Joy of Dating: Uncover and Overcome Your Self-Limiting Beliefs
Lesson 3: Eliminate Your Fear of Rejection -- Forever!
Lesson 4: Discover the Secrets of Abundance that Naturally Attract Women
Lesson 2: Use the Secret Women Don't Want You to Know to Your Advantage
Lesson 3: Create a Lifestyle That Attracts Women Naturally
Lesson 4: Activate Women's Basic Biological Urges
Lesson 2: The Secrets of Successful Online Dating
Lesson 3: How to Date 12 Women in 12 Weeks
Lesson 4: Avoid the Number One Mistake All Nice Guys Make with Women (Don't Become a "Girlfriend With a Penis")
Lesson 2: Testing for Interest (And Driving it Up), Pt 2
Lesson 3: The Shy Guy's Guide for Bantering and Flirting with Women
Lesson 4: Find Your Really Great Woman (She's Out There Looking for You)
Upcoming Classes & Seminars
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I took the entire run of Dr. Glover's courses (MYM A&B and PYP A&B) and they really helped me to lay out my new course and break old patterns that no longer serve me with women. These courses are superb - because Dr. Glover not only shows you what to do as a man of action - but also teaches men be how to be "integrated.” He teaches everything end-to-end, so men can eventually find a relationship that is meaningful, intimate while being a conscious AND masculine guy, and having fun dating along the way. Stay away from the pickup stuff and go with Dr. Glover. Few are doing what he's doing, and I highly recommend his work and programs.”
David Hamilton, Social anxiety coach at SocialExpression.net and creator of the Dissolve Social Anxiety Online Recovery Program
Caleb Gammon, Atlanta GA
George, Denver, CO