P.E.T. Positive Emotional Tension
The Key to Feminine Attraction, Attachment, and Passion
4-week Online Course
Course Begins 21 July, 2014
Registration Open Through: 28 July
Led by Dr. Robert Glover
Change the Way You Relate to Women Forever!
Author of No More Mr. Nice Guy
What Is Positive Emotional Tension?
I had the most amazing revelation after a run on the beach in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, spring 2008. I’m not sure where the insight came from, but when it hit me, it almost blew my mind.
The “aha” of that moment made almost every question I’d ever had about women – as a single and married man – crystal clear.
Here it is.
Women have to experience emotional tension to feel attraction and attachment to a man.
In that moment, everything became clear. Everything I’d ever done wrong with women. Everything I’d ever done right with women (but didn’t know why). Everything women had ever done that made absolutely no sense to me at the time.
I was so immediately blown away, I ran back to my room and wrote eleven legal pages of notes on how to apply this information.
Here are the basics:
For a woman to be attracted to a man, she has to feel emotional tension with him (which often gets translated into physical and sexual tension).
Check out a few chick-flicks to see what I’m talking about.
For a woman to remain attached to a man, she has to regularly feel emotional tension with him.
All this is basically the opposite of what most men believe about attracting and keeping a woman. That’s why what most men do is wrong and leads to unending frustration for both them and women.
It became clear to me why single men fail to create attraction with women by being “nice.”
It became clear to me why many women in relationship lose sexual desire for their partner over time (and start nagging, complaining, withdrawing, getting fat, etc.).
That day changed my life. The information I will share with you in this workshop will change yours as well.
Here are the two biggest “tension” mistakes I see men make with women.
The first is to go out of their way to make sure they never create any tension.
Most men hate emotional tension – especially any kind with a woman – so why would they want to create it?
If you are single and seem to struggle in attracting women or often end up in the “friend zone,” it’s probably because when you meet a woman, you invest all your energy in trying to get her approval.
You don’t take any risks. You listen to her talk about what she’s interested in. You don’t touch her or tease her. You buy her drinks and volunteer to help her sister move. Your “niceness” creates no tension, and she gets bored. Next thing you know she’s gone to the bathroom and never comes back.
After several experiences like this, you assume women just aren’t attracted to you, or they only go for jerks. So you do the only thing you know – you get nicer and try even harder to please.
If you are in a relationship and your partner is frequently too tired or too busy to have sex. Or the sex you have is boring and routine. If your woman often seems irritable and seems to enjoy pointing out your faults. If she is withdrawn or has gotten overly invested in her job, the kids, food, or television, it’s because whatever tension used to exist is long ago and far away.
If this sounds like your relationship, you probably don’t risk in any way: you keep things to yourself, you avoid rocking the boat; you try to please and avoid conflict, you withhold the truth, and you don’t ask for what you want. All of this kills emotional tension, and with it any “attachment” your woman might have had to you (and her trust and her sex drive along with it).
The second big mistake men make is to quickly try to eliminate any tension a woman creates.
If you’re single, a woman has to quickly find out if you have your shit together. Whether she knows it or not, she wants a man who can provide for and protect her. She’s a security-seeking creature, and Mother Nature wired it into her. She doesn’t want to be the most powerful person in the room (though she will be if you’re not).
She uses “shit tests” to find out if you’re man enough to be her man.
Most men quickly fail a woman’s shit tests, because they see them as attacks. But they’re the opposite. They signal a woman is already attracted to you and now wants to find out if she should give herself to you more deeply.
As soon as you defend yourself, explain, make excuses, or act flustered, you’ve failed, and her juices dry right up.
If you are in a relationship and your woman has a mood or an emotion, I bet you quickly “put the wet stuff on the red stuff.” You do whatever you can to solve her mood and get her back to “good.”
I call this “maintaining the possibility of availability.” You probably don’t think your woman will want to have sex with you if she is in a bad mood, but the truth is that, for women, drama is foreplay.
If you aren’t consciously creating “Positive Emotional Tension” (PET), your woman will unconsciously create “Negative Emotional Tension.” You know, the body language, noise, criticism, accusations, complaining, and sighs that create tension between you.
Women tell me they don’t mean to get all bat-shit crazy, but they can’t help it. Since your woman needs emotional tension to feel attracted and attached to you (and she really does want to feel attracted and attached to you), she will create it – she has to.
I know right now much of this probably sounds crazy to you, but I hope it’s also making a little sense as well.
In this four-week online course, we will uncover and apply the principles of PET.
I will teach you how to create PET, not as a technique, but as a way of inviting a woman into a deep connection with you.
- If you are single, it will change how you relate to every woman you meet.
- If you are in relationship, it will transform you and the woman you love.
- And whether you’re single or in a relationship, it will improve your sex-life times X.
Whether you’re single and want to learn how to create instant attraction with women, or in a long-term relationship that has lost it’s spark, this course will transform your life.
No more trying to please women. No more groveling for sex. No more feeling frustrated. No more wondering, “What did I do wrong?” No more pondering, “Why did she do that?”
P.S. When women find out what I teach men about PET, they often ask questions like, “Where can I meet one of your guys?” “Can I come wait in your parking lot?” “Will you put up a website so I can find your graduates?” Women love this shit and really want you to get it!
What You Will Learn
Why it’s essential for women to feel emotional tension to experience attraction and attachment to a man.
How men fail to create emotional tension.
How men kill what tension does exist.
How positive and negative emotional tension differ.
How to stop being “nice” and seeking women’s approval.
Why women use “shit tests,” and why you should view them as invitations for sex.
How to pass a woman’s shit tests.
How to set the tone and take the lead with women.
How to stay out of the friend zone.
How to create instant and overpowering PET and attraction with a woman the first time you meet her.
What you can do daily to maintain PET and attachment in a LTR.
How to practice the Three Rules for Great Sex.
How to stop pleasing women.
Why trying to make a woman happy always fails (and actually makes her unhappy).
What feminine drama means.
Why you should never try to get an unavailable woman to be available or try to get an unaroused woman aroused.
Why women cheat.
Why women do things that make no sense to you.
How to avoid ever taking personally anything a woman does.
- Why a woman’s complaining, criticizing, or fault-finding is an invitation to connect with her more deeply.
After completing this course you will not only understand the deep principles of emotional tension and its effect on women, but you will also have a confident grasp of the application of these principles.
1. What is emotional tension and why do women need it (for attraction, attachment, and passion)?
2. Why do you fail to create emotional tension and how do you kill it when it does exist?
3. Why women create negative emotional tension (and why you should view it as an invitation for deeper connection)?
4. Powerful strategies for creating attraction, attachment, and passion in women.
Every lesson will present multiple strategies for creating and maintaining positive emotional tension.
Live Coaching Webinar &
Discount on Live NYC Workshop
Participants in P.E.T. Positive Emotional Tension will receive the following bonus podcasts:
During the course, I will conduct a live group coaching webinar where I answer your questions in person. I will record this webinar so you can listen in even if you can't attend in person.
- Opening Up a Woman Sexually
- Creating Positive Emotional Tension With Women
- From Pink to 50 Shades of Grey: Do Women Really Need Positive Emotional Tension?
Plus, if you can join me in New York City for a live P.E.T. workshop on 4 October, 2014, I will apply 50% of the registration price of this course to your workshop registration.
Standard Registration: $150
Student/Military Registration: $75
You must be a full-time student or active military to qualify for this discounted rate.
How the Class Works
When you register for P.E.T. Positive Emotional Tension, you will receive a link to a class resource page. After the course begins, a new lesson will be added to the class page each week. Most lessons will be presented through a written “lecture,” from which you will be able to download and print the lessons and homework. The course will also utilize some video and audio recordings that supplement the lessons.
The lessons will present information to help you understand the subject and yourself. They will be geared toward helping you apply the information to your life in very practical and doable ways. Each will have discussion questions to stimulate personal reflection and interaction with class members on the online forum. Homework assignments will help you apply the information to your life.
Class Discussion Forums
The class resource page will contain a discussion forum for each lesson, where class members will post their responses and homework assignments. Class members will be encouraged to read and respond to each other’s posts.
A powerful part of the course will be the mutual support, modeling, and accountability that such interaction creates. Most people struggle to change their lives because they try to go it alone, using a limited set of tools. The online forums will help you see that you are not alone or your issues unique. They will build on the concept of “what one man can do, another man can do.”
The online forums will remain available for 12 months after the class begins so class members can continue to support each other and stay in touch long after it ends.
Instructor Q&A Forum
The class will also have an online Q&A forum where class members can ask Dr. Glover questions relating to the lessons. Dr. Glover will have regular office hours, at least twice a week, when he will respond to these questions.
Live Q&A Sessions
This course will feature one live, interactive discussion session with Dr. Glover. The Q&A session will last about an hour and will provide a forum for asking any question relating to the course. The date and time will be posted on the class resource page. If you cannot make the session, you will be able to post questions in advance. The Q&A session will be recorded and posted in the class library.
This class will have a library where Dr. Glover will post resources related to the topic, including podcasts, videos, recorded interviews, books suggestions, and article links. This valuable library will help class members apply course information and put their intention into action.
You will be able to work at your own pace, reading the lessons and logging into the class forum to read and post at any time. You will be able to participate anytime from anywhere.
100 % Satisfaction Guarantee
If you are not completely satisfied with the quality of the materials in P.E.T. Positive Emotional Tension, your money will be happily refunded!
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